As the Assistant Welfare Bureau Chief of Persatuan Hainan Kuantan, I usually received SMSes late in the afternoon, to inform me of the dismiss of our beloved members who had passed away. I would usually attend the decease at their family's home or at the funeral palour. Recently,I noticed that the attendence amongst our Committee Members was reduced to about the usual 4 to 5 Committee Members. It is disheartening to observe that our Committee Members were lukewarm in attending the funeral wake in order to pay respect to the deceases and to grief together with their family's members in their time of their berearement